Plan the Work and Work the Pla

Does this conversation I had with my son a couple years ago resonate with you? “Josh, you had a lot of work to do this past weekend. Did you get it all done?”  To which I got a dirty look.  Again, “Josh, did you get all your work done?”   “NO!”  So what happened?  He knew what he had to do, but be failed to plan adequately.

In talking to him, he thought he had a plan.  In reality he didn’t.  (1) It was all in his head. It’s hard to be held accountable to something when you don’t write it down or tell someone else.  (2) His “plan”, even executed well, would not have gotten the task done.  He didn’t check his homework portal, there were assignments he forgot about, he did not plan breaks or plan adequate time to complete the assignments, and he never included metrics to make sure he was staying on track.  And, (3) he did not adapt his “plan” to the changes that happened after he started execution.  When something came up on Saturday that took him away from study time, he did not adjust the plan so he could complete the work on time.  In the famous words of Mike Tyson, “Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face.”

So what could he have done differently?

 1.       Write the plan down – it does not matter if it is your task list for the day or a three week project.  Putting it in writing makes you more accountable to it.

2.       Share the plan with someone else – this increase your accountability even further, and it also is good to have another set of eyes looking for what you might have missed.

3.       Include metrics for staying on track – having goals for the plan is great, but “it’s done” is not a good metric to make sure you are staying on track to complete everything you want on time.

4.       Make sure to build “assess and adjust” checkpoints into your plan – this way when reality affects your plan you already have a reminder to evaluate if you have to make a course correction. 

5.       If it is a longer term plan, launch it quickly, do it cheaply and revise it rapidly.  Essentially fire “small bullets” to test and tweak your strategy before investing a lot of time and money in it to make sure your ideas will work.

 

“Efforts and Courage are not enough without Purpose and Direction.” – John F. Kennedy

“Without strategy execution is aimless.  Without execution strategy is useless.” – Morris Chang

 

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The Invitation

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living.  I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing. 

It doesn't interest me how old you are.  I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive. 

It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon.  I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain!  I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it, or fix it. 

I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human. 

It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true.  I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy. 

I want to know if you can see beauty even when it's not pretty, every day, and if you can source your own life from its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, “Yes!”

It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have.  I want to know if you can get up, after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children. 

It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back. 

It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied.  I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away. 

I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.

By Oriah Mountain Dreamer
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